I can't help but look at this whole situation with
Alex Rodriguez and think, maybe it's not his fault. Maybe, it's ours.
Not for doing steroids. No, that's certainly his fault. Not for the "pressure" to do steroids, because I don't buy any of that garbage. No one had a gun to his head, he decided to ruin his legacy, not us.
What I mean to say is, maybe it's our fault for even taking him (and other celebrities and athletes, for that matter) so seriously. What makes Alex Rodriguez a role model? The fact that he can hit a baseball a long way, the fact that he can range to his left and has a cannon for an arm? I understand how society is set up, and that as a guy in the public eye, making as much money as he does, there are expectations people like he and Michael Phelps need to live up to. But, maybe that's the problem.
We seem to be constantly in shock and surprise when our favorite athletes and musicians and actors/actresses get caught for doing the wrong things. Whether it's domestic abuse, or cheating in the sport they play in, or drug possession, or saying racist things, these guys aren't perfect. In fact, they're just like us. Some of them are good guys, some aren't. Some you'd be friends with, others you'd never want to even talk to. So why, because they play basketball or can rap or play a guitar should that elevate them so?
I happen to be a fairly fortunate sports fan. Growing up, my favorite player was David Robinson, whose only crime was that he was a bit too religious early on in his career. Following Robinson, I idolized
Tim Duncan and
Warrick Dunn and
Derek Jeter, all players that have (thus far, fingers crossed) stayed far away from negative press and quite in the positive realm. That's just one person's experience.
Yet, there has to be at least one Albert Belle fan out there.
One Vince Coleman fan. One Rae Carruth fan. One Notorious B.I.G. fan (guilty). Point is, we've all liked celebrities that we may not have liked personally.
But, that's OK and that's how it should be. What we pay to see is what they do in between the lines, on the CDs, in the movies. That should be it.
Don't you think it's a bit odd that even President Obama commented about A-Rod? Or that the government seems to be knee deep in this whole investigation? Shouldn't we have more pressing issues to concern ourselves with (ahem, government)?
In no way am I excusing A-Rod of what he did. It bothers me to no end, as a Yankee fan and as an idealistic fan of baseball. But, if I stopped rooting for players or musicians based on what they did in their personal lives, I'd really be at a loss. I couldn't listen to any Kanye West songs, three quarters of the NFL and NBA I'd have to ignore. It would be awful.
Would it be great if every player was like Tim Duncan (OK, more exciting than TD, but you get the point)? Sure. But, that ain't the way it goes.
Some are jerks, some are not. If anything, this whole episode should prove that we need to stop putting these athletes and stars on such pedestals. All they seem to do is let us down.